Intimacy That Phone Sex Brings

Sexual intimacy is important as part of a relationship. Relationships basically could grow or deteriorate with many sexual matters that a couple could be experiencing. With the physical displacement that humankind is experiencing nowadays, it is rather hard to maintain a healthy sexual relationship with a partner that is a thousand miles away. Sex involves two people who are related intimately, it involves contact, the sense of touch, emotions, and the feeling of togetherness. Sexual conversation involves not only those necessity but also maturity for those involved.

In order to successfully go through with having a good experience with the sexual conversation, your relationship should develop into another stage of sexual maturity. Couples who have experienced this will attest that it rather hard and is usually embarrassing at first, but as time goes, you will both get to have pleasurable lovemaking overtime. There are initial difficulties like any initial lovemaking will have, but as you are able to both sexually mature and adjustments are made, in time it will all be something that you will get used to.

Phone sex like any other intimacy needs maturity and understanding from both partners, it is therefore safe to say that having phone sex is an adventure like no other. Going into something new and adventurous is always exciting and exhilarating so the rewards could be fulfilling and wonderful in the end. Having a long distance relationship is already hard, let along keeping your personal intimacy at its peak. But many couples would want their relationship to work even with the constraints of space and time. Many relationships are set apart due to distance but it should never be the reason to give up on what you know is something that is good. Having phone sex could be something that is like threading on unfamiliar waters – difficult, but with patience and practice, eventually you and your partner will feel comfortable with it.

Like any other intimate activities, phone sex requires preparation like normal physical sex. Many critics say that it is like fooling each person that is in the relationship. However, many people who have discovered the pleasures of phone sex would readily say that it has actually save their relationships. Since it keeps couples intimate with each other even beyond time and space. For obvious reasons, it requires more than that of normal sex, like setting the mood right. Getting naked is of importance and you must have an open mind in masturbation. Unless you have a video camera equipped you will not be able to established eye contact so couples need to work extra hard. Sexual phone conversation is all in the mind; work with the mind to rekindle intimacy because as they say, the mind is the most versatile sex organ.

Phone sex does not only keep the intimacy that couples needs, it is also ignites imagination and creativity. Not only can that people having phone sex easily rediscover themselves along the way. You may discover something that gives you more pleasure than real sex does or an erogenous zone that you have never known before. All in all, phone sex is a good way to keep the intimacy going for couples who are far away from each other.

How To Have Phone Sex – In 3 Easy Steps

Phone sex is just a vocal version of physical sex. Only sounds and voices are involved when having sex over the phone. Phone sex is very usual in many ways especially for couples starting out who do not wish to get too physical too early in a relationship and also for long distance relationships or couples who occasionally stay far from each other. The toughest part about phone sex is how to initiate it. Most people are simply too shy to initiate it. Read on to find out some of the best ways on how to have phone sex and how to achieve the desired results.

Build the mood- If you and your partner are not in the mood than you would find it extremely hard to initiate phone sex. Start with a normal conversation and let it carry on for a while. This time let it jump into a bit boring talk and propose your partner for doing something different this time. Better make sure that you and your partner are intimate enough before initiating phone sex otherwise you would most probably find your partner hanging up on you.

Ask what she is wearing- Once the mood is build instantly strike the question regarding what she has on right now. Now ask her to start taking her clothes off slowly as you talk. Tell her what you are wearing as well and start to undress yourself as she undresses herself. Phone sex is nothing different from real sex but the only difference here is you need to use your thoughts to satisfy her and yourself.

Let the mental movie build- Phone sex is all about dreaming and imagining about having sex. Tell your partner step by step what you going to do next as if you are really doing it physically. Start with oral and moan as if you are really doing it. Remember sounds are extremely important when it comes to phone sex. Sounds alone would make your partner climax. Keep talking about what you are doing step by step and let the mental movie build. The take a step further and get into intercourse and keep your partner informed how and what you are doing and when you would change the positions. It is just an imaginary form or real physical sex but the only difference is that it’s had over the phone.

Phone Sex – What Do the Neighbors Think

Are my neighbors listening to my phone sex calls? I don’t suppose I will ever know the truth.

I know they could be. Living in a fairly new suburb of a fast growing city has created a perfect eavesdropping situation. The houses are only about 8 feet apart, the trees are still tiny, and the summers are hot. My windows are wide open at night, as I am sure everyone else’s are in this city. It would be reassuring if there were lots of street noises at night to drown out the moans, sighs and demands (I am Mistress Cassie, afterall), however after 10 pm it is dead silent in this neighborhood. Am I the only night owl here? I doubt it.

So, lets just say my lucky neighbors have plenty of opportunity to listen to some very naughty conversations.

“Martha, you’ll never guess what I heard last night!”

“Oh yeah, I hear it sometimes too… I think its someone’s cat”

“No Martha, its a woman. A woman aahh, she’s ahhh, well, it sounds like she is moaning!”

“Really? I am going to listen again tonight”

Maybe its not like that at all. Maybe its George out by the back fence, just listening and enjoying, not daring to move, afraid I’ll catch him, or worse, his wife Martha will catch him!

Well, we can’t have this kind of situation. I refuse to close the windows and melt away my summer nights. I really don’t intend to patrol the fence between the backyards. I am definitely not going to ask George if he is listening to my phone sex calls. Its my business, literally, and if its of any interest to anyone else, they should be paying $2.99 per minute like the rest of you.

Have you ever wondered if anyone ever overheard one of YOUR phone sex calls? It could happen. Here is my list of preventative measures.

  • Close the windows
  • Turn some music on (TV works too)
  • Call from the bathroom, with the shower running (not a water conscious move)
  • Call for phone sex from your car – be careful of the location!
  • Use the Cone of Silence
  • Invite the neighbors…maybe they will split the bill with you!

Instead trying to keep people you know from listening, you could also make your phone sex calls from a safe place like a hotel room. That way if you are overheard, it will be by strangers. Some people call from the office, although that opens another whole can of worms.

Another thought is to disguise the sounds. Some callers enjoy barking like dogs, being hypnotized into zombies, performing as sissy maids with high squeaky voices. Anyone listening to these types of conversations would be entertained, but likely would not recognize it was a phone sex call they were listening too.

Its all about being comfortable, both during and after the call. Some people LOVE the idea that someone IS listening. A little exposure just adds that last little bit of danger/excitement. If this is your ball of wax, then maybe sit close to the window, and really give your best performance.

As for me, I am going to continue on as I am now, windows wide open. If you happen to be in my neighborhood some night, listen closely. You might like what you hear.